I feel it's cool if you always will love that little attitude, but make sure 6 months-1 year from now you're gonna love it. that's why people get confused and fall out of love so easily. Go f* a hooker that is feisty or has an attitude if you can't handle it. Don't tell someone you love their attitude then hate that about them later on.
- Impulsiveness in NPDs? started by TiredOne @ Out of the FOG - "Charismatic & fun. The impulsiveness was one of the things that drew me to him. I used to say we were a good match because I am quite rigid (I like to know what and when in advance) and he is incredibly impulsive. Now, I just can't help but shake my head when we walk into a car dealer and he fills out the paperwork to purchase the vehicle when I didn't even know we were looking for a new vehicle or he invites everyone out to an event that I would love to go to, but have to reschedule everything to be able to attend. This is part of the reason our money will never swim in the same bank account. I can't have his impulsive purchases make it so we aren't able to pay the bills."
Objectification
You are objectifying them because you seem them as a "thing" to be healed by you, or as a goal, or a thing that you are turned on by instead of as a person that exists.You see them as an object that can not take care of themselves unless you help them.You reduce them to their mental "illness" or personality instead of seeing the good they do or the good in them.
You are objectifying them because you seem them as a "thing" to be healed by you, or as a goal, or a thing that you are turned on by instead of as a person that exists.You see them as an object that can not take care of themselves unless you help them.You reduce them to their mental "illness" or personality instead of seeing the good they do or the good in them.
- Feminist Perspectives on Objectification @ Stanford - "instrumentality: the treatment of a person as a tool for the objectifier's purposes; denial of autonomy: the treatment of a person as lacking in autonomy and self-determination; inertness: the treatment of a person as lacking in agency, and perhaps also in activity; fungibility: the treatment of a person as interchangeable with other objects; violability: the treatment of a person as lacking in boundary-integrity; ownership: the treatment of a person as something that is owned by another (can be bought or sold); denial of subjectivity: the treatment of a person as something whose experiences and feelings (if any) need not be taken into account.reduction to body: the treatment of a person as identified with their body, or body parts;
reduction to appearance: the treatment of a person primarily in terms of how they look, or how they appear to the senses;
silencing: the treatment of a person as if they are silent, lacking the capacity to speak." - "In social philosophy, objectification is the act of treating a person, or sometimes an animal, as an object or a thing." - Wikipedia
- "Objectification - The practice of treating a person or a group of people like an object." - Out of the Fog