**If you are in an actual abusive relationship (where you can't just say a safe word to stop it) please get help:
This is roleplaying, fake and when shniz gets too intense a safe-word can be used.
It gives me the chaos manufacturing I need in life.
- In the US: call the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1-800-799-7233 (SAFE).
- UK: call Women’s Aid at 0808 2000 247.
- Australia: call 1800RESPECT at 1800 737 732.
- Worldwide: visit International Directory of Domestic Violence Agencies for a global list of helplines and crisis centers.
- U.S. and Canada: The Domestic Abuse Helpline for Men & Women
- UK: ManKind Initiative
- Australia: One in Three Campaign
This is roleplaying, fake and when shniz gets too intense a safe-word can be used.
It gives me the chaos manufacturing I need in life.
- Selena Gomez's Outta My Hands - (talks about loving someone even though they are "crazy". Didn't post the lyrics as some of the words can be triggering for some.Some people don't like that word.
- This is why 50 shades of grey is completely sh*t
- The Difference between BDSM and abuse @ Dominant Life
- Abusive Relationship Role Play
Zelophilia
Lyssophilia
Rhabdophilia
anger/rage = aphrodisiac
"brooding" = more attractive
Stepford Wife - this is not implying that being a stepford wife is abusive.
Also see " Expectations of genders" to see the stereotypical things each gender "should" do in society.
Also see " Expectations of genders" to see the stereotypical things each gender "should" do in society.
fascinating womanhood movement/Stepford wife/housewife
- 1950's Housewife Training Course
- 1950's Housewife & HOH.... on Pinterest | Housewife, 1950s Housewife and Feminine Hygiene
- I want to be a Stepford Wife
- Stepford University – School of Womanly Arts
- Wifery 101: I Took A Class On Being A Good Wife | YourTango
- The Glamorous Housewife | Rediscovering the Lost Art of Homemaking
- This confused Stepford Wife wants YOU to have more sex. Because Girl Power.
- Fascinating Womanhood on Pinterest | Homemaking, Elegant Woman and 1950s
- 1000+ ideas about 50s Housewife on Pinterest
- Fascinating Womanhood Course
- Helen Andelin - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
- The Surrendered Wife: A Practical Guide To Finding Intimacy, Passion and Peace: Laura Doyle: 9780743204446: Amazon.com: Books
- Surrendered wife - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
- Fascinating Womanhood - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
- To Serve Man (The Twilight Zone) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
- 7 Tips for Keeping Your Man (from the 1950s) | Mental Floss
- Secrets of Fascinating Womanhood: To show you how to unlock all the love and tenderness in your Husband - Kindle edition by David Coory. Religion & Spirituality Kindle eBooks @ Amazon.com.
- Becoming the Ultimate Housewife: 1950s Housewife
- A Real 1950's Daily Cleaning Routine, by the 50s Housewife @ The 50s Housewife
- The 50s Housewife
- I Spent a Week As a '50s Housewife, and Here's What My Pretty Little Head Learned@ Bustle
- Ladies, Fail Your Families With the Housekeeping Board Game From a 1963 Family Circle @ Village Voice
- And Here's the 1950s Test That Urges Husbands Not to be "Sissies" @ Village Voice
- Here's the 1950s Quiz That Proves You Are a Terrible Wife @ Village Voice
- Violet Chachki - Bettie
- Rant by Faith Ann
Servitude
- Servitude (BDSM) @ Academic.ru - “Some submissives gain pleasure and satisfaction from performing services for their dominants, such as serving as a butler, waitress, chauffeur, maid, or houseboy.”
- In BDSM, servitude refers to performing personal tasks for their dominant partner, as part of their submissive role in a BDSM relationship.In domestic servitude roles, the submissive can receive pleasure and satisfaction from performing personal services for their dominant, such as serving as a butler, waitress, chauffeur, maid or houseboy....The satisfaction of servitude are often combined with the pleasures of fetishes, the pleasures of humiliation, or both. A submissive may rub his or her dominant's feet because the sub enjoys providing the service, has a foot fetish, enjoys being "lower" than the dominant, or any combination. But some bottoms who enjoy servitude prefer to keep their enjoyment and pleasure secret from all others including person(s) they have created as their "dominant". There are those in the BDSM community who frown upon this practice, however, as surreptitiously putting someone in a dominant position violates the principle of consent." - Wikipedia [ don't forget consent,you guys.Always check in with your partner and always have a safe word to stop the act if the sub does not want to do it anymore at that point in time.]
- Serve, Service, Servitude @ B.E.S.T - "How can you serve your Mistress – what are the ways? Here are some suggestions:Make sure her home is clean and neat. Make sure her clothes are clean and neat.Prepare her favorite foods for her.Prepare her bath.Rub her feet after she comes in from working all day.Offer her a massage if her day was very stressful.Offer to do her manicure and pedicure.Have her favorite music playing or find her favorite show or movie on TV.Surprise her with flowers.Serve her coffee as soon as she gets up in the morning.Ask what clothing she wants laid out for her.These are just a few of the ways you can serve her once you have been trained in what she wants and likes. Don’t be afraid to use your imagination to surprise her (provided of course that she has no problem with you doing this occasionally).A happy, contented, pleased, relaxed woman is a woman who will then have no problem torturing you, using you, or even indulging you with a fetish or two that are your favorites…………just to show you how much she really appreciates your service and submission to her." [change "her" to "his" if it is a male master and female sub.]
- Master’s Rules for hispet
- Domestic Servitude @ Blogspot
Obedience
- Woah, lotta Info!: psyCast - Studies of obedience
- Obedience (human behavior) - Wikipedia, the free encyclopedia
- What Does "Obedience" Mean in Psychology?
- A Master’s Viewpoint Of The BDSM World: What Is A Slave?
- A Master’s Viewpoint Of The BDSM World: Obedience Is The Key
- Parents, Require Obedience of Your Children | Desiring God
- Obey, bitch! - BDSM porn tube video at YourLust.com!
- 4 ways to teach children obedience
- BDSM Library - Story: To Obey
- 7 Effective Ways to Teach Your Kids to Be Obedient ... → Parenting
- Obedience
- How Important Is Obedience To A Master/ Mistress : I Think Bdsm Can Be Healthy Story & Experience
- Chapter 8: Section 3: Obedience And Power | AllPsych
- Obedience to Authority | Simply Psychology
- Obedience & Penalties
- Obedience
- Obedience | S-cool, the revision website
- Definition of Obedience | Chegg.com
- CATHOLIC ENCYCLOPEDIA: Obedience
- SparkNotes: Social Psychology: Obedience and Authority
- Psychology Teaching Resources from psychlotron.org.uk
HOH/TIN
- @Submissive Guide - “The Taken In Hand man protects and cherishes the woman he leads. The Taken In Hand woman responds positively to her man’s authority and leadership. It is not necessarily a domestic discipline relationship, though it can be... In some D/s relationships, the woman might aspire to be more submissive, whereas in many a Taken In Hand relationship, the woman will have no such aspiration.”
- @BDSM Wiki - "A Taken In Hand (TIH) relationship is a consensual male-led exclusive monogamous relationship in which the man's control is real and for the purpose of creating a deeply connected, fully engaged relationship with a strong sexual connection. The term has been popularized by the UK Web site of the same name."
- A Domestic Discipline Society (ADDS): HoH: Head of Household Rules
- @ Taken In Hand.com“To take the second bit first, the focus of Taken In Hand is on the idea of living under the control of a man—not because men are superior, or biology or the Bible dictates it, but just because it is our (Taken In Hand folks') preference. And the more in control the man is, the better, as far as I am concerned. It is erotic. It feels right...The idea that being taken in hand is about women being inferior to men, or being faulty, out of control, over-emotional, irrational and in need of “help” which men are somehow not in need of just doesn't add up. I am not those things but still I have a strong desire to be under the authority of a man. It is not that Taken In Hand women need “help”, it is that we have a deep desire to be under a man's control, because that is sexy for us, and for no other reason. “ Note: Domestic Discipline is not about being superior to men, it is consensual and it is agreed upon with both parties involved.
- Taken In Hand
domestic discipline
- @Urban Dictionary - “Domestic Discipline (DD) is a male led (or female led) relationship where the Head of Household is in charge of the Taken in Hand partner. There are rules and consequences for the TIH and punishments for breaking rules range from spanking, corner time and lines. “
- A Domestic Discipline Society (ADDS) - , Researching & learning Domestic Discipline. The focus of DD is relationship accountability & a tranquil household. And the caring, consensual use of discipline to enhance communication, deepen intimacy and reinforce relationship commitment. ADDS is where ALL varying styles of DD are brought together in ONE place! Use device larger then phone to see EVERYTHING!”
- Taken In Hand relationship | Surrendered Wife - "Discipline is a fairly major aspect of TiH relationships and is used by the man on the woman to either punish a transgression (flagrant disobedience, arguing etc.) or as a means to end an unending dispute. The discipline rendered may be verbal scolding or loss of privileges, but is most often physical (usually a spanking). In this context it is intended to be un-erotic and not desired (though it is consensual).like Master/slave relationships, the woman in a TiH relationship is regarded as owned . However many couples in TiH relationships feel that a strong feeling of possessiveness and protectiveness by the man for the woman is an essential ingredient of the relationship, which is also commonly accepted in western culture. This does not however extend to a concept of the woman being owned property. Although it is often said that not all TiH women are submissive, and not all TiH men dominant, it is generally accepted that a large proportion of both do regard themselves as such."
- Domestic Discipline: Not Just Spanking @ Dr. Psych Mom - “For us, personally, we have chosen to do domestic discipline because it feels very natural to us. We also practice the lifestyle because it has allowed us to reduce the amount of arguments we have, and provides a “means to an end” when arguments do occur. It also has helped me (Chelsea), personally, by making me procrastinate less, curse less, be more respectful, drive more safely, and more. The changes it has made in me as a person are something that I’m truly grateful for, and the changes I’ve watched the lifestyle do for my husband, such as made him a stronger leader, made him more protective, made him more confident, and made our family run so much smoother have also been 100% worth it.”
- A Domestic Discipline Society (ADDS): Domestic Discipline Reminder Spanking
- My guide to domestic discipline, part 1 @ Domestic submission - IT seems like what she is describing is a TPE relationship :) “It’s not! The difference between our domestic discipline and domestic violence is clear: here I am in loving submission and not in fearful submission. I want to submit myself to him as our leader, but he still wants my opinion, my ideas, and even my debate. However, he demands me to be respectfully, without complaining or being snarky. I know for sure how he loves me and that he would never abuse, maltreat, or use violence on me. I still get spanked (because I find all kinds of reasons for him to do it <3), but he does it out of love; not out of anger or cruelty.”
- @Submissive Guide - “Mutual respect, consideration and communication are essential to a healthy DD relationship, but, while the framework of DD must be consensually agreed, individual punishments may occasionally be given without the specific consent of the ‘disciplinee’....As a relationship style, it is often seen as a stylised form of ‘traditional’ relationship intended to help the woman overcome negative behaviours that harm herself, her relationship or others. In creating loving limits to her behaviour and firm consequences for harmful activities, it aims to improve the relationship over time and demonstrates a loving connection to and physical correction from a caring partner.”
- @ Taken In Hand.com - “The focus of the domestic discipline (DD) community is slightly different. The discussions on DD forums tend to be tightly focused on “discipline”, lists of rules and infractions, “accountability”, “boundaries, limits and guidelines”, “misbehaviour”, “consistency”, and punishment, and how all this allegedly helps women's behaviour improve.”
- Creating Balance and Love in Your Domestic Discipline Relationship @ Jolynn Raymond's Dark Obsessions - “Domestic Discipline isn’t some kind of nirvana for those who give up control, but it does give the TiH a sense of peace because the major worries are my worries. Nothing can take away every single worry and bit of stress from anyone’s existence, but the structure and discipline DD relationships hinge on makes life easier for my wife and I. I do battle with the big stressors, and she fights all the little everyday battles that get on my every last nerve. I know I don’t have to worry about the prescriptions being picked up, the pets being taken to the vet, gas put in the car, or what’s for dinner. It’s all done.
Angry sex / grudge fu*king
- "This might sound like a funny description but the point of angry sex is that if an argument breaks out the man is so manly and strong that his penis basically ended the argument by showing her who's boss and by giving her so much pleasure, she isn't going to be fighting with you anymore.So with that in mind, angry sex can be hard for people who are "sensual". I assume you like touching and kissing and exploring in an open environment and having both people be freely open to the other. The problem with angry sex, if you think more sensually, is that there is something a tiny bit demeaning about it. It entails a punishment of one person on some level. And I don't mean S&M kind of punishment. Cause S & M is usually done with both parties agreeing that one will submit and one will be dominant. With angry sex, there is an undertone that one person is taking the other whether they want it or not. [not rape] The guy usually says things like "Do you like that?" or like alucurd said, can mock the woman with something like "Oh you aren't saying much now are you?" It sort of gives the man a sense of dominance that she doesn't have much say in it. It's not rape, it's agreed upon forcing on some level. Her saying "Show me what you got!" and him saying "I'm definitely going to show you!" If you like the good feelings after sex, angry sex probably isn't for you. It can give you a really good orgasm but it can leave a little bit of a bad taste in your mouth cause what makes it so passionate is the lack of love in the moment. And was definitely not meant for sincerely bonding of 2 people. I am just saying this cause if you like "sensual" sex, it isn't going to give you the close feeling after sex. As a man, it will make you feel dominant over her. And not all men are comfortable with that feeling. Also, if you are a sensual guy, it ends arguments the exact opposite way you probably like. You might like to finish the argument and then make love to feel closer to her. Angry sex ends the argument by you forcing her to end it threw sex. Obviously, cause of some of the stuff some guys have seen in their life, they are really against doing that or feeling that way. If all that sounds way out of the realm of what you want to do, you can try other things that give her the same feeling of you being in charge and passionate. Cause it seems like that really is what she wants. Sometimes making love, sometimes just f***ing. Try doggie style more maybe. And be a little more rough in that then normal. Would she like to be tied to the bed or blindfolded? That also will give her the same feelings of you being in charge that she is looking for. And it doesn't have to be super kinky. You can use one of your ties and burn candles to give you that sensuality and give her that feeling of you taking control. " - hisangel @GirlsAskGuys
- "Fucking with a vengeance; fucking like you want to stab a hole inside your partner with your dick." - Grudge Fu*k @ Urban Dictionary
- How do you have angry sex? Asked by mr_sunrize @ DateHookup (dot) com:
- just because your angry doesn't mean you can't have sex. In fact if the energy is dispelled during sexual intercourse it can make approaching the original problem easier..You're both now too tired and spent to argue, thus allowing room for listening and reasoning - raynbowsyns
- It's not rape. Angry sex is caused by both partners emotions running on a 10. That emotion is then directed into sex. - bigdinv
- Both parties are so passionate, and the sex is so wild and primal. - musicmaster34
- Anger is an emotion and to me, it is a form of passion and is extremely intense. You would not be angry with someone you are not passionate about. I have had a heated argument turn into the most intense sex I have ever had. - catchmeifucan38
- F%#! Me like u hate me = idalydalphne