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Wendy Syndrome
- Are you in a Relation with Peter Pan? The Wendy Syndrome @ The Power Within Women - “”The Wendy Syndrome is about women who are very dependent upon their mates in a special way. They mother their mates, treating them like immature children. These women usually state, “I feel like I have three children, instead of two, because I have my husband, too.” The Wendy woman attempts to control situations with her man through inappropriate mothering. She is a very insecure woman who cannot handle anger, either her own or her partner’s. By taking on a maternal role toward her mate, she feels protected from the possible rejection and abandonment that, in her opinion, inevitably results from exchanges of anger.”
- Wendy syndrome: Excess liability @ From Doctor - “A person who is suffering with this syndrome feels responsible for the welfare of others, as he believes that without his help could not achieve this. These people do not control the direction of his life and focus control of others, and often, the source of all this comes from the family’s past. If it is a small person who felt excluded and unprotected, is likely to acquire the role of adult hand and deal with it to meet their own shortcomings of the past.”
- Wendy syndrome: take care of others and forget of oneself @ Good eating and health - “Feel the need to take care, meet others, because that is the way they feel happy making others.They prioritize the needs of others to his own, that is why they come to sacrifice their hobbies and even what to them is important.For these people, take care of is a way to offer love and they do so freely and so inclined. No one imposed upon them which should take care of other people.”
- Drakalogia - Group 3 Wendy Darling and Wendy Syndrome
- Wendy syndrome by - Jean-Yves Flament @ Psychologieclinique - “Those who suffer Wendy syndrome difficult to control its own course in life, so devoted to trying to control the lives of others.Often, the origin of this syndrome is located in the last member of the family who suffers from it, when this person felt excluded and without protection, by what adult compensates for the lack of guidance and protection, assuming the role of parents, who did not. Who suffers from this syndrome does not so in this situation.”
- Wendy syndrome@ Didactic Encyclopedia - “Person that perfectionism leads to feel guilty when something goes wrong, especially when it comes to meet others.Feel essential; It is she who should be responsible for doing things.Your idea of love is equal to the sacrifice. He is resigned to the discomfort, fatigue and other negative consequences that brings with it the wear due to the care of another person.Assumes the responsibilities and tasks of its Peter Pan, by which, in case of not being, assumes the role of mother of her partner.It avoids conflicts and tries to make happy the other person leaving aside his own happiness.He apologizes or feel guilty for things that have not been possible.
- The Wendy Syndrome: caring for others and neglecting yourself @ Step To Health - “”And what about Wendy Darling? She is that young girl, who from the first day, becomes the shadow of Peter so she will not lose him again, who worries about cleaning the house, about taking care of the “lost children” … Who gives everything for others because that is how she is happy.Now let’s see what characteristics usually define people with the Wendy syndrome:They feel the need to provide care, to tend to others, because in this way they feel that they are making other people happy.They put the needs of others above their own, and then they begin to sacrifice their own desires and even the things that are important to them.For these people, giving care is a way of offering love and therefore, they do it freely and because they love them. No one makes them care for others. However, they often “become attached” to a partner with Peter Pan syndrome, that is, immature men who don’t want to care for anything, who do not want to be responsible, and who are comfortable with having a partner to take over responsibility for everything, including their children.”