Fetishize them
Fetishes are fetishes and if it is not harming anyone, then whatever. However, many people date a person who is broken just because they get turned on by their sadness.They seek people who are broken because it turns them on, however, after a while the novelty wears off and it becomes routine, seeking the "non" to want to break up, or push for them to be a "normal" person, one who they feel would be more suitable for them.
Fetishes are fetishes and if it is not harming anyone, then whatever. However, many people date a person who is broken just because they get turned on by their sadness.They seek people who are broken because it turns them on, however, after a while the novelty wears off and it becomes routine, seeking the "non" to want to break up, or push for them to be a "normal" person, one who they feel would be more suitable for them.
How do you think they feel. They don't just get to leave when times suck.
I think nons confuse love and lust.
They get attached to the exterior, or the novelty of wanting to help, but when they can't, it's not good enough anymore.They do not fall in love with the person, but the novelty of them. They fall in love with the goal of trying to get them to be "perfect" they fall in love with potential and not the person as they are now.
If you have a "thing" for depressed people go to fuckadepressedperson.com (not an actual site) I'm sure there is a dating site for that.
Maybe you are co-dependant, maybe you have dacryphilia, maybe you have the hurt/comfort fetish,maybe you are a sadist, maybe you have a need/fetish to be a caregiver, who knows, but own up to it and choose other people into that rather than praying on unsuspecting people just because they are a novelty. That is not love.
I think nons confuse love and lust.
They get attached to the exterior, or the novelty of wanting to help, but when they can't, it's not good enough anymore.They do not fall in love with the person, but the novelty of them. They fall in love with the goal of trying to get them to be "perfect" they fall in love with potential and not the person as they are now.
If you have a "thing" for depressed people go to fuckadepressedperson.com (not an actual site) I'm sure there is a dating site for that.
Maybe you are co-dependant, maybe you have dacryphilia, maybe you have the hurt/comfort fetish,maybe you are a sadist, maybe you have a need/fetish to be a caregiver, who knows, but own up to it and choose other people into that rather than praying on unsuspecting people just because they are a novelty. That is not love.