Superiority Complex
- "A superiority complex is a psychological defense mechanism in which a person's feelings of superiority counter or conceal his or her feelings of inferiority.The term was coined by Alfred Adler as part of his school of individual psychology. It was introduced in his series of books, including "Understanding Human Nature" and "Social Interest"." - Wikipedia
- "Having the need to feel superior than others by means of intelligence, athleticism, or any other measurable trait. - Urban Dictionary
- @2 Know Myself
- @ WiseGeek
Narcissism - Narcissism is the worst disorder,in my opinion,that there is.I feel it is the cause to bullying,suicides and just plain rudeness. People who have been in the path of a narcissist also develop mental and personality disorders.
Humiliation (it's okay if it is agreed upon, but some people do not have an outlet.It may be opposed and kept inside seeping out in unhealthy ways)
Sadism/sadistic personality disorder
Feel better about themselves
“I feel bad, so I have to make someone else feel bad; then I’ll feel better.” And because her behavior was consistently rewarded with a positive (although illogical) emotional experience— validation from her husband— her behavior was reinforced and repeated in the future.McKay, Matthew; . The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook.
Histrionic Personality Disorder (when the attention is not on them they will be mean to others to whom has the attention. Not all people with HPD are like this;however. i have this and I would never be mean.)
Reaction Formation (if someone has a fetish for something they will bully so they can "protect" themselves and convince themselves they do not like it.
Ex. A person who is homophobic may be homosexual. A person who finds bigger people repulsive or picks on short people may have a secret fetish,etc.The one thing I've learned in life is that those hardcore gym rats that lecture you about weight loss and shniz make up the largest amount of consumers for BBW /BMH porn (especially the guys). Whatever people bully you for, chances are they go home and jerk off over it. I've worked in the sex industry as a cam girl/ phone sex actress for a while and I've seen the kind of guys and women who want BBW, midget, etc.porn. They just got done making fun of someone for being short, or fat just moments before they buy a BBW porn DVD. They make fun of people for something like being fat or short but then wants some BBW or midget porn. It's pretty much like this... whatever people pick on you for that is what their fetish/ paraphilia is. Those people who make fun of women for having small boobs? Guess what they want at night when they need to jerk off? You guessed it, chicks with small boobs. Whatever they make fun of you for; 9 times out of 10 it's probably his or her fetish.
Homophobes Are Gay - Study - YouTube
What is reaction formation? Do you use it?
What is the Dark Triad of psychology?
Dacryphilia
@WikipediaA crying shame: A brief overview of dacryphiliaKink of the Week: Dacryphilia | Kinkopedia
Hurt/Comfort fetish
Hurt and Rescue principleHurt/Comfort @ Fanlorecscs@TvTropes
- What is disinhibition / online disinhibition? - my blog post about it.
- In psychology, disinhibition is a lack of restraint manifested in disregard for social conventions, impulsivity, and poor risk assessment. Disinhibition affects motor, instinctual, emotional, cognitive, and perceptual aspects with signs and symptoms similar to the diagnostic criteria for mania. Hypersexuality, hyperphagia, and aggressive outbursts are indicative of disinhibited instinctual drives" -Wikipedia
- Online Disinhibition Effect @ Encyclopedia of Psychology
- Disinhibition - The Definition and Examples
- Disinhibition definition | Psychology Glossary @ alleydog.com
- @NCBI
- Online disinhibition effect @ Wikipedia
- Internet Trolls Are Narcissists, Psychopaths, and Sadists. Trolls will lie, exaggerate, and offend to get a response @ Psychology Today
- Baiting - A provocative act used to solicit an angry, aggressive or emotional response from another individual.
- Robert D. Hare 's Psychopathy Checklist
- Psychopathy @ Wikipedia
- How to Tell a Sociopath from a Psychopath from PsychologyToday
- How to spot a sociopath - 10 red flags that could save you from being swept under the influence of a charismatic nut job
- Differences Between a Psychopath vs Sociopath By John M. Grohol, Psy.D. - "Psychopathy and sociopathy are different cultural labels applied to the diagnosis of antisocial personality disorder. Up to 3 percent of the population may qualify for a diagnosis of antisocial personality disorder. This disorder is more common amongst males and mostly seen in people with an alcohol or substance abuse problem, or in forensic settings such as prisons. Psychopaths tend to be more manipulative, can be seen by others as more charming, lead a semblance of a normal life, and minimize risk in criminal activities. Sociopaths tend to be more erratic, rage-prone, and unable to lead as much of a normal life. When sociopaths engage in criminal activity, they tend to do so in a reckless manner without regard to consequences."
Humiliation (it's okay if it is agreed upon, but some people do not have an outlet.It may be opposed and kept inside seeping out in unhealthy ways)
- People bully to get off..written by a sex worker
- Humiliation @ EmotionalCompetency - actualdefinition,not BDSM definition
- @Wikipedia
- Erotic Humiliation
- Humiliation @ EmotionalCompetency - actualdefinition,not BDSM definition
Sadism/sadistic personality disorder
- Sexual sadism @ MindDisorder..
- Sexual Sadism@ Forensic Psychiatry
- Dealing With Everyday Sadists and Other "Dark Personalities": 5 important tips for protecting yourself from those who would do you harm @ Psychology Today
Feel better about themselves
“I feel bad, so I have to make someone else feel bad; then I’ll feel better.” And because her behavior was consistently rewarded with a positive (although illogical) emotional experience— validation from her husband— her behavior was reinforced and repeated in the future.McKay, Matthew; . The Dialectical Behavior Therapy Skills Workbook.
Histrionic Personality Disorder (when the attention is not on them they will be mean to others to whom has the attention. Not all people with HPD are like this;however. i have this and I would never be mean.)
Reaction Formation (if someone has a fetish for something they will bully so they can "protect" themselves and convince themselves they do not like it.
Ex. A person who is homophobic may be homosexual. A person who finds bigger people repulsive or picks on short people may have a secret fetish,etc.The one thing I've learned in life is that those hardcore gym rats that lecture you about weight loss and shniz make up the largest amount of consumers for BBW /BMH porn (especially the guys). Whatever people bully you for, chances are they go home and jerk off over it. I've worked in the sex industry as a cam girl/ phone sex actress for a while and I've seen the kind of guys and women who want BBW, midget, etc.porn. They just got done making fun of someone for being short, or fat just moments before they buy a BBW porn DVD. They make fun of people for something like being fat or short but then wants some BBW or midget porn. It's pretty much like this... whatever people pick on you for that is what their fetish/ paraphilia is. Those people who make fun of women for having small boobs? Guess what they want at night when they need to jerk off? You guessed it, chicks with small boobs. Whatever they make fun of you for; 9 times out of 10 it's probably his or her fetish.
Homophobes Are Gay - Study - YouTube
What is reaction formation? Do you use it?
What is the Dark Triad of psychology?
Dacryphilia
@WikipediaA crying shame: A brief overview of dacryphiliaKink of the Week: Dacryphilia | Kinkopedia
Hurt/Comfort fetish
Hurt and Rescue principleHurt/Comfort @ Fanlorecscs@TvTropes
Normalizing - just because the internet/people say it doesn't make it okay.
- "Normalization refers to social processes through which ideas and actions come to be seen as "normal" and become taken-for-granted or 'natural' in everyday life. In sociological theory normalization appears in two forms.First, the concept of normalization is found in the work of Michel Foucault, especially Discipline and Punish, in the context of his account of disciplinary power. As Foucault used the term, normalization involved the construction of an idealized norm of conduct – for example, the way a proper soldier ideally should stand, march, present arms, and so on, as defined in minute detail – and then rewarding or punishing individuals for conforming to or deviating from this ideal. In Foucault's account, normalization was one of an ensemble of tactics for exerting the maximum social control with the minimum expenditure of force, which Foucault calls "disciplinary power". Disciplinary power emerged over the course of the 19th century, came to be used extensively in military barracks, hospitals, asylums, schools, factories, offices, and so on, and hence became a crucial aspect of social structure in modern societies." - Wikipedia
- The Normalization of Abuse @ I'SOT - shows how abuse can become "okay" if a culture "agrees" it is "okay."
- The Process of Normalizing Abuse By Darlene Ouimet @ Emerging Broke
- "Normalizing - Normalizing is a tactic used to desensitize an individual to abusive, coercive or inappropriate behaviors. In essence, normalizing is the manipulation of another human being to get them to agree to, or accept something that is in conflict with the law, social norms or their own basic code of behavior." - Out of the FOG
In my opinion...., "I'm just being hnonest/telling it like it is", "I'm not [racist, sizophobic,homophobic,etc] but....
Bullying
- "Bullying - Any systematic action of hurting a person from a position of relative physical, social, economic or emotional strength." - Out of the FOG
Looks have nothing to do with sexiness....
My FB "like" pages related to anti-bullying***
What would Riley Matthews do?
My FB "like" pages related to anti-bullying***
What would Riley Matthews do?
- A little boy bullied for his ears gets a new look and has a heartwarming reaction! - Note: they could have helped him overcome and stand up to the bullies and helped him love himself. Now, he is going to want to fix EVERY flaw instewad of learning to accept it and just tell others to Shut up and shove it.
- The most beautiful way to stop a bully I've ever seen by TDA group and Shane Koyczan called "To This Day"
- "This is a sculpture project...I took over 100 pill bottles and relabeled them to say things people have said to me to cause me to take these pill."
- Man claims to be the new Ginuwine!/ Stop bullying people because they want to sing
- What is/ Who is Champion of Choices/Marc Nero?
- If I want to do light makeup, or go full bimbo I can by WLI
- [Pic] "My body is not a democracy. It is an empire....."
- The Most Beautiful Way To Stop A Bully I've Ever Seen - "To This Day ... for the bullied and beautiful"
- #EndBodyShame
- Ben Buckwalter - Bullying needs to stop
- Dumb remarks about any of the "isms" all sound the same
- School Bullying: Do Adult Survivors Perceive Long-Term Effects? by Nicholas Carlisle
- Drama queens, saviours, rescuers, feigners and attention-seekers.Attention-seeking personality disorders,victim syndrome, insecurity and centre of attention behaviour
- 10 Signs Your Girlfriend or Wife is an Emotional Bully
- Don't judge.... who are you to judge anyway
- Before you judge others or claim any absolute true, consider that...
- Hating People You Don't Even Know
- European douchebag vs Sikh woman about gender
- Valentine Road
- Wil Wheatons response to a little girl on how to deal with being called a nerd
- Cypress Ranch High School Anti-Bullying Lip Dub "Who Do U Think U R?"
- You chose to be Offended
- Stick Up for Yourself: Every Kid's Guide to Personal Power & Positive Self-Esteem
- Which Races Are Superior? Tiger Mom Has The Answer
- April 2nd National Have Sex With An Ugly Person Day
- Why are we all such haters?
- 11 Steps to Fight the ‘God Complex’
- Queen Bee Syndrome
- She faced down Web bullies with a simple message
- Girl With Severe Facial Deformity Gives Bullies a Piece of Her Mind
- Key & Peele School Bully
Internalized Misogyny/ Internalized misandry